Thursday, January 21, 2010

my shrinking baby and the good/bad news

Houston - Tessa   Tessa has grown but went down on the percentile charts at her 12 month (1 month late) check up today:

Weight:     19lb 9.2oz – 16%

Height:     29 inches – 32%

Head:     17 3/4 cm – 42%

The worst news… from my girls’ pediatrician (who I liked until she told me this) she said there is a new regulation where “they” recommend we keep our kids in rear-facing car seats until they are 2!  That’s right, my doc said Tessa’s got to face the back until she’s 2 years old!!!!!!  Did my doctor make this up?  Has anyone else heard this? 

I guess it’s back to Tessa always crying in the car for 1 more year.  What a bummer.  I’m so sad about this, but safety first… I guess.

I do have a bit of (unrelated) good newsI found $300 today!  This story needs a little background:

Last October Dan and I decided to sign a 9 month lease on our current apartment instead of the cheaper 11 or 12 month lease.  Signing a shorter contract subjected us to a higher rent payment but, at that time, we saw it as a 50/50 chance we would be moving out in June for Dan to take the bar in a different state. 

Since then, we have decided to stay in Colorado and Dan will take the bar here.  So all this extra rent we’ve been paying just sucks.  I’ve been thinking about how we are going to pay our upcoming student loan payments (can I tell you how HUGE or payment will be?  don’t get me started) and of course our expensive rent has been really screwing up my budget.  So I decided to hop online and look around for a cheaper place in the area.  While comparing our current floor plan to another I noted that the advertized price for our current apartment is $280 LESS monthly than we are paying now!!

So, today (this is where it gets good)  I called the leasing office prepared to tell them we are moving out if they won’t lower our rent to the market rate.  Well, in talking to the manager I found out that I’ve been over-paying our rent by $100/month.  Say whaaaaat???  I was shocked, why hadn’t they told me?  Good news is, our rent isn’t quite as bad as I thought, and I inadvertently saved $300! 

Would you believe me if I told you I am losing my mind?  Well I am, who else forgets how much their rent is?  It’s true what they say, having children kills brain cells.  I used to be smart.

Tuesday, January 19, 2010

Houston

We were home from Utah for 2 weeks before we left to Houston.  We scheduled this trip when Southwest was having their deep discounted fares so we could go see my brand-new niece and nephew (Sydney and Dean) before Dan was back in school.  Funny thing was we thought Sydney was coming to Utah for Christmas and Dean wasn’t but turns out Dean was born a few weeks before Sydney and he made it to Utah while Sydney didn’t!  Anyway, we were so excited to see some more of Dean and meet Sydney for the first time!!

We hadn’t flown for a year, since Sophie turned 2 (and started costing us a ticket), she was SO excited to take her Dora luggage and fly on the airplane!  She says, “fly in the airplane, WOOOOOOO, fly so high in the sky!”  (While illustrating a plane taking off with her hand.)  Here she is waiting to get on the train at the Denver airport, another sought after mode of transportation!  She got lots of smiles and waves as she walked through the terminals pulling her own luggage, Sophie was the picture of a model passenger.  She was elated to be able to use the escalators, since we didn’t have a stroller for the first time ever. 

Houston - airport Sophie 2

Our fun way of getting to Houston alone made the trip worth it! But we had a great time visiting family once we got there too. :)

Jenny had found some “toys” including her Halloween costume which was a very big hit with Sophie, she really likes cats.  Here she is showing me her tail and ears, she wasn’t interested in smiling for a picture, only showing me her costume specifically.

Houston - cat tail SophHouston - Sophie cat ears

When Dean entered the room it was a big deal, I thought, that she wanted him to wear the cat ears and tail.  What an honor!  Luckily Dean was comfortable enough with his masculinity to pull it off.

Houston - Dean cat Houston - James and Sophie catHouston - sophie cat holding dean

Two other “toys” that were BIG hits:

Houston - Jenny's stairs Tessa  Houston - Tessa sweeping Houston 137 Houston - Jenny's Stairs

Nice work Jenny, turns out you have a very fun house!  Indoor stairs are something my girls rarely see, and in this quantity, unheard of! They were elated to mop the Kendall’s floors at any opportunity.

I’m not certain of the order of events, but seeing how it doesn’t really matter… I will just do this in the order I come to the pictures.  Dan’s Uncle Willis and Aunt Wilma live in Houston so we gave them a call; they were more than willing to meet up with us the next morning and wanted us to come stay at their house too!  Such friendly people.  They took us out (minus napping Sophie) to Pappas’ Bar-B-Q  (pronounced “PAAP AS”, not papa’s) for lunch.  When we saw them in Utah last summer, Texas BBQ was Willis’s chosen topic of conversation (mostly any kind of food and how it’s bigger and better in Texas) so we had to take him up on the offer.

Houston - BBQ with Willis and Wilma Houston - BBQ Dan eating Houston - Tess with Willis and Wilma

After lunch they drove us around to brag, I mean show us all the cool things around Houston we had time to see.  Dan was happy for the chance to get some more stories from Willis about Dan’s Grandpa.  Dan’s been really interested in learning more about his Mom’s parents since he never met them (they died young) and enjoys talking with the few people who are around that knew them (just his mom and Willis).

As soon as we got back we hurried up to meet little Sydney!!  Jenny and James live close to down town (and work out of town) while Jason and Nicole live North of town and Jason works in town!  Silly.  But they both have beautiful new homes, made me excited for the day (in the very distant future) when I can own a home of my own.  I think I will be more of a suburb girl since I have older kids that will benefit from the bigger yard and safer neighborhoods.  Although the convenience of living downtown will definitely be missed… anyway, back to the topic at hand, SYDNEY!!!  Holy cow is she cute.  I just wanted to kiss her little face off!

 Houston 060 Houston - Sydney and Dean on the floor Houston - Sydney  Houston - Sydney and DaddyHouston - Sydney and mom

After Sydney and I got acquainted we ate dinner and the guys were ready to watch the BCS championship game… and the girls were ready to go shopping. 

Dan:  “You’re taking the kids right?”

Me:  “Nope, you guys can watch them while we go shopping.”

Dan: “Uhhhhhh, we’ll be watching the game.”

Me:  “I know you can do it.”

And then we left, with NO children!  Thanks guys.  Jenny, Nicole and I had so much fun shopping together, with some great laughs.  Jenny and I both bought some finds from the clearance rack, I do love Kohl’s!  Nicole was unsuccessful at this venture but did find something at the mall in a different shopping trip.  I really enjoyed that short get-away.  The girls were in good hands.

Houston - Soph playing WiiHouston - Soph and James playing

Friday we went out for Tex-Mex, I was most excited about this.  I really like Mexican food and was disappointed that I didn’t get any Tex-Mex when we were there 2 summers ago.  The restaurant was called Chuy’s and it was totally awesome!  They have a thing for Elvis with a whole shrine for him and everything and it just so happened to be Elvis's birthday!  So we got free birthday cake, Elvis masks, Elvis tattoos, and non-stop Elvis music!!  I really liked the food, I had a chuychunga, and it was reasonably priced to boot!!  So great.  I wish you could see the ceiling in this photo, it's covered in hubcaps!

Houston - at Chuys

Plus I got to go change Sydney’s cute little diaper and pretend like she was my baby for a minute as all the waitresses ooohed and aahhhed over her.  What can I say, I’m a fraud. I think my girls are cute as ever but they don’t get the attention like they did when they were newborns.  I think people realize how brief that small baby time is and it needs to be appreciated!

We had a quiet afternoon at the Kendalls playing a card game called scum (I was president the whole time, it was pretty awesome).  Truth is, we playing again a different day and I was scum or vice-scum the whole time, I’m all luck, no skill.   Thanks for humoring me everyone and playing a game together.

Houston - playing scumHouston - scum Dan Houston - scum Jenny Houston - scum Jason and Sydney Houston - Sydney and Nicole playing cards Houston - Dean staring

Saturday morning we met at a mall North of Houston.  Right inside the doors there was a double-decker carousel!  $1 a ride, we couldn’t say no.  James took some cute pictures for us.

Houston - carosel family pic Houston - carosel Jess and Tess

Then it was off to the play area until the boys’ movie started.  It was a really cool place, a huge castle with slides and bridges, basement and all sorts of stuff.  Funny story about the play place… They had a small area made for toddlers but it was full of older kids anyway.  It was below ground level, blue with little mounds so it kind of looked like water.  Sophie laid in it and kept yelling, “Mommy, I’m getting baptized!  Look Mom, I’m baptizing!!”  So embarrassing, guess it shouldn’t have been but I felt pretty silly with all the weird looks I got as I tried to shush and distract her.  Sophie asks about when she can get baptized and go inside the temple all the time, it’s different in public. :) Sorry no pictures of the newborns, they were safely tucked away and asleep.

Houston - mall Tessa laugh Houston - mall Sophie in theblue

We managed to shop a little with 4 kids while the guys watched Sherlock Holmes. I think we did pretty good!  I was really enjoying all this girl time.  Jenny and Nicole are a lot of fun.

We were tired!  Everyone came back and had a nap at the Kendalls, no one was as cute at the babies.

Houston - Sydney sleeping smileHouston - Dean sleeping

Although Jason looked pretty cute with his blanket pulled up just like Nicole’s nursing cover.  I don’t think Jason appreciated this picture.

Houston - Jason and Nicole nursing 

After church Sunday morning, under direct orders from my mother I took some family photos of the Kendalls and the Quincys.  Most of them are on James’ camera and on their way to me via DVD now, including the much anticipated cousin shot.  I wish I had some to show you because it was so funny, as we were trying to get all 4 kids positioned, happy, not hurting each other at the same time, I think it was James who said, “I think your mother has requested something impossible!”    I love to take pictures, these are kind of bland since they were inside.  But that’s ok, the people are not bland!

Houston - Kendall family 5 Houston - Quincy family 1

The Quincy’s treated us to a delicious dinner and a little RockBand, that afternoon before we had to go back and pack our stuff.  Thanks guys! 

My girls sure loved seeing the babies, especially Tessa.  As I have been editing pictures and editing this post Tessa smiles and points at the babies.  She even says, “bub Dee,” for baby Dean, but she loves Sydney just as much, her name is just harder to say. :)

Houston - Tess kissing dean Houston - Sophie Dean Houston - Sydney staring Houston - Sydney and Dean

Thanks Jenny and James for letting us invade your privacy (quite literally, since Sophie slept in James’ closet,) and for drives to and from the airport.  Thanks Jason and Nicole for sharing Sydney with us and letting us spend time at your beautiful home.  We love you all!!

Anybody still reading??  Good job, your attention span is longer than mine, and you can read this plug of mine…

A small plug for visiting family individually:

I prefer “one-on-one” visits compared to our “mass visiting” home to Utah.  Yes it is great to get the whole family together, and we will continue to do that.  But every once in awhile I think it’s nice to spend time with a smaller group so you really get to “see” them more and focus.  The same thing goes for when people come and see us here, I think we get more quality time.  Anyway, I’m so glad we were able to go.

Monday, January 18, 2010

last day in Utah

I failed to mention in my last post that Dean’s blessing was during our Christmas visit to Utah.  The Sunday after Christmas infact.  So, even though it has taken me a very long time to get to posting these photos, we only stayed in Utah for a week this Christmas, I just took a lot of pictures… but hey, what’s new?

We went and saw this darling movie that most of you have hopefully seen as well.  In attendance were Ann, Elise, Grandma Quincy, Jenny, Dean, Jonathan, Dan, me, Sophie and Tessa.  We did pretty good in the theatre!  I thought the movie taught some great morals about working hard and marriage, plus I was so happy to have a musical Disney animated film again, finally!

last day - princess and the frog girls 2 last day - princess and the frog quincy girls

We went to lunch afterwards to the Pie, I feel like I post about this place constantly.  Dan swears he’ll eat there daily every time we go to Utah, that hasn’t happened but we always go at least once or twice.  We were met up by the rest of the Wells family, my brother Jack and Dan’s parents too.  Yummy, yummy pizza!

last day - the pie Melody ate ranch last day - the pie tessa eating last day - the pie Dan happy last day - the pie dean sleeping

The next morning we LOADED the van, literally loaded, with all our Christmas gifts and headed home!  It’s so nice having a van.

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When the time was right between girls’ naps and a need for gas we pulled off I-80 to eat some dinner.  This town had NOTHING!  Just hole in the wall motels (one was even called “Hole in the Wall”)  I begged Dan to just go to the next town but he was entranced by Square Shooter’s Eating House.  Oh it looked so gross, he kept saying it would be an ADVENTURE!  Dan’s consolation for me was, “hey, you can bring in your camera.”  So I did.

last day - eating house last day - eating house cowboy last day - eating house Dan and tess last day - eating house Soph knife

Our food was fine and the lady that ran it was really nice.  I was quite repulsed by all the dead animals hanging on the wall but we were able to find a table without any carcasses hanging DIRECTLY over our table.  Sophie’s really into cowboys lately and I tried to get her to take a picture with Mr. Squareshooter, she was all for it until she got too close and saw how HUGE and scary looking he was.  Thanks for the “adventure” honey, I still love you.